Sunday 19 June 2016

A Message for Dads

Today I want to write a quick blog today to honour dads.  

In the movie Jordan to the Max it talked about how when Michael Jordan was signing autographs he would sometimes see a father and son in the crowd surrounding him and would be envious of them. It’s easy to see he would feel that way because of how famous he was it was hard for him to have similar experiences with his own kids.  This got me thinking about a few things: 

Dads and Their Sons 
The father-son relationship is a special one to observe.  Fathers and sons seem to connect on such a powerful level especially when it comes to the realm of sports.  Their bond can be so strong.  It is such an amazing thing to see when fathers show their sons how to play the game or support them in continuously improving.  Over time it is really something to cherish.  Fathers often teach their son’s honour, courage and strength.

Dads and Their Daughters 
The father-daughter relationship is so unique.  It is amazing to witness powerful men showing a vulnerable side of themselves when it comes to their daughters.  Dad’s often teach their daughters how to be independent, resilient and strong.  It is so incredible to see the dad’s that takes time to support his daughter in the things that she takes a interest in.  Providing the right atmosphere for her to grow, learn and improve.  

Dads Who Coach
There are so many sacrifices that are made to be a coach.  Many coaches that are dad’s often sacrifice the time they have with their own families to help their players to continue to flourish.  Over the years I have been surrounded by men that provide athletes with all the tools they need to take their game to the next level.  Taking the time to coach someone that isn’t your blood relation is such a powerful expression of love. It is a selfless act especially when considering what is often at stake.  

It is especially hard for coaches to work with their own children.  Sometimes the expectations they have for their own children can be incredibly high.  Providing the right mix of support and drive is perhaps the most challenging part.  Not to mention that many times the expectations from outsiders fall on the shoulders of the kids as well.  There can be judgement passed on a player just because of that relationship.  These dad’s often have to be resourceful to navigate such a challenging path in order to have their family come through it in tact.  


For all the little things you provide makes such a big difference. Happy Fathers Day!

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